[NIFL-ESL:6272] Re: meanness

From: Andres Muro (andresm.RGCAMPUS.EPCCRG@epcc.edu)
Date: Wed Jul 11 2001 - 13:05:14 EDT


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Sorry :-( 

As always, I stand corrected. I apologize for my obnoxiusness (I wasn't trying to be mean spirited though). 

Andres

>>> Janet_Isserlis@Brown.edu 07/11/01 06:59AM >>>
Dear all,

I'm aware of the fact that many of us have to pay for access to 
email, that some of us may be trying to download mail from out of the 
office and have to pay long distance charges,  so that  'trivial' 
email can be a burden .

Generally, if folks need to use this list to communicate back and 
forth, if someone occasionally hits reply to the list when they 
should have sent a message to just one person,  so what.  It happens. 
If the message is insignifant to me, I delete it.

But this last round has taken things too far.  If an ESOL learner had 
asked about an urban legend, had been taken in by what, on its face 
seems a terrifying story -- would anyone here belittle that person?

Why, then, is it ok to suddenly start snapping and being just plain 
mean spirited to colleagues here?

The good thing about a listserv is that is bring disparate voices 
together.  But we don't know each other very well very often and have 
no way of knowing the impact of our 'casual' or snarky, sarcastic 
posts.  Or of their potential to silence other questions. to stop 
conversation.

Please, think about that when you're annoyed by someone's opinion or 
question.  Maybe s/he just hadn't known  about whatever the thing in 
question is . Being mean spirited only helps to silence others who 
might ask -- or, who -- through just not knowing -- wanted to warn 
people about something hideous like needles at gas pumps.

Please let's try to take better care of one another here

thanks

Janet isserlis



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