[NIFL-FAMILY:3033] Re: To eat or not to eat

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<<Now I am interested in starting a family literacy program with after-school 
care (3:30-6:15) children.  But my problem lies in getting the parents 
involved since they are at work during the time we would have access to the 
children. We could possibly keep the children an additional 1 1/2 hours until 
the parents arrive at school.  However, how do you entice these parents to 
stay at school after a long day at work and during a time that is their 
normal dinner hour.  I have considered serving lots of food, but are there 
alternatives?>>

If the question is indeed as stated: whether there are alternatives to 
serving food during "dinner-hour" activities, I would say the answer is no.

*If* the event goes over the normal dinner hour, I think there is no 
*alternative* : there MUST be food. I realize I'm stating the obvious, but... 
when people (all people, any people) are hungry (even temporarily), food 
usually becomes our first priority.  Furthermore, hungry (and tired) people 
are usually grouchy people; sated people are more likely to enjoy an activity 
(and to come to it in the first place). 

Of course, there may be alternatives to the *time* you offer your activities 
(and perhaps that was in fact the question in the first place!) ...but since 
it is just about the dinner hour as I post this, I can't think about anything 
but the food question: proving my point. 

Betsy Rubin
Blue Gargoyle Family Learning Project
Chicago



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