[NIFL-LD:4064] RE: Non-verbal LD & a Request

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Hi Margaret,

<<Vivian, thanks so much for bringing attention to non-verbal learning
disabilities. If anything, these seem even more invisible and less
understood than some other forms of LD.  You talked briefly about how you
are impacted; would you be willing to say more?>>
Thanks Margaret, I greatly appreciate your interest.  You're right, NLD is
an invisible disability but I have noticed on campus that is it is getting
more attention in LD and Special Ed Journals.  So I find that encouraging.

How it affects me.  A perfect example is a temporary assignment I am on.
The people couldn't be nicer so I have no complaints about that.  But my
supervisor was giving instructions and because she wasn't explicit, I was at
a loss as to what she was talking about.  Fortunately, I did catch on but a
lot of NLDers would not have.

Because I don't visualize instructions very well, I have to write things
down even for tasks that most people would not find the need to.  I joke it
is that fading middle aged memory and usually, people will buy that.

My visual spatial skills are very poor.  For example, I had learned my way
around pretty well at the place I am doing temporary work.  But any little
change can throw me off.  For example, on Friday, the door to the conference
room was open and that made me hesitate and think I wasn't headed in the
right direction.

Even though I feel I have learned to compensate well in reading non verbal
language, it is still a big effort and is not something that comes
automatically and effortlessly like it would for people without NLD.   I
avoid noisy events if at all possible because due to auditory processing
difficulties in addition to NLD, it is just too much of an effort to
compensate.

Finally, I have organizational difficulties.  Interestingly, I have learned
to compensate better at work than I do in my home life.   I have all the
gadgets and they are quite helpful but my guess is it will always be a
struggle.

I hope that gives you some idea and again, I greatly appreciate you asking
what it is like to have NLD.   That is such a refreshing change from a lot
of the insensitive comments that we usually receive that are said with good
intentions but just aren't the right thing to say.

I will definitely visit your collection of resources on LD as I am always
interested in what other sites list.  I also probably should be familiar
with it as an assistive technology student.

Vivian

PS - One more thing in the struggle area - Because of my visual perceptual
problems, I struggle with putting on makeup correctly.  Since appearance is
everything in a job interview, that might be a problem.

I know there is help for the things I have mentioned but finding the money
is another issue.



Over the years I've learned the most about LDs through conversation with
those struggling with them. I -and probably others - would appreciate
hearing your experience and insights.

I coordinate the Literacy & LD Special (online) Collection of resources for
NIFL.   http://ldlink.coe.utk.edu/
Even though non-verbal LD is included through links, it is not as easily
found as some other forms of LD -- and that is going to change.

To all of you on the LD discussion list: an Invitation & Request.  Please
visit the LD Special Collection and share your thoughts with me: what's
helpful, what's missing? etc.

AND --please send along the web-addresses of valuable web sites!  You're a
well informed group - & we need your help to keep the LD Collection up to
date with high quality resources.

Thanks so much,
Margaret

Margaret Lindop
Coordinator, LINCS Literacy & Learning Disabilities Special Collection
http://ldlink.coe.utk.edu/
Center for Literacy Studies
The University of Tennessee
600 Henley St., Suite 312
Knoxville, TN 37996-4135

Phone  865-974-6659
FAX     865-974-3857
email   glindop@utk.edu



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