[NIFL-WOMENLIT:1978] Fwd: Fw: Long but VERY interesting

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Thanks Ujwala for your post to the list.  

I have always bee interested in the clothes women wear to do their work, to 
me they so often seen physically constraining.  Hoop skirts posed problems, 
and there's the burqa and the chador.    If I can help it I will never wear 
pantyhose again, an invention of the devil.

I added my pervious comments to your post.

Andrea

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Ujwala,

Long but VERY interesting.

My experiences in Karachi:

After about 30 seconds in the Bohri Bazaar I came home and put on a 
long-sleeved shirt and long trousers.  I had been "dressed" --in a dress.  I 
understood what I was wearing was the equivalent of underwear in Karachi.

A short time after a freind and I went for a swim at a hotel owned by Parsi 
friends.  One second in the pool and everybody else has clumped at the other 
end!  Then I noticed they were all men, climbed out, changed, left, went for 
a swim at theAmerican pool.  Now understood why It was open to Americans, 
other expats, and their Pakistani  friends.

I bought shalwar kameez with a friend who took me again to the bazaar, and we 
had a great time selecting.  I put it on to show Mohammad, the cook.  he was 
shocked--No doparta!  So I bought a doparta, draped its double folds aroudn 
my neck, and was modestly attired.

I saw women in burquas, had a feelign that this conveyed protection, and 
understood from experience (I thought) why it was worn.

A long time later, I read about an Israeli woman traveling on a bus, and an 
orthodox Jewish man who told her that her uncovered arms offended him--she 
said to him somethignto the effect taht These are my arms, not yours. 

My conclusion:  where a person's body  begins is negotiable, it probably 
includes fabric and cultural context.  With women, this space is usually 
negotiated by reference to the man's gaze--how far it goes, what stops it, 
and the man's power to enforce what clothes women wear--male power.  How much 
of the space between a man and a woman is owned/contolled by the man?

Now, I see men jogging all the time, and in warm weather they jog in 
shorts--little ones--I have never heard this questionned.  women wear bikinis 
at the beach, men wear speedos.  This seem culturally allowed.  But women or 
men jogging in what would be obviously underwear would be shocking.

I saw the pictures of burqua clad women shot in Afghanistan under the 
Taliban.  Were women raped.

Is the Koran As exacting in control of men's clothing?

That's it for now.  Here's the ps--in Cambridge I dress like a student and am 
therefore invisible, very comforting, very anonymous, very comfortable.

Thanks for the post!

Andrea



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