[NIFL-WOMENLIT:2155] Re: continued "taboo" words/phrases

From: Carole Pearce (cpearce@wrench.ccts.org)
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> From: "Deborah Schwartz" <deborah@alri.org>
> Reply-To: nifl-womenlit@nifl.gov
> Date: Tue, 7 May 2002 13:06:44 -0400 (EDT)
> To: Multiple recipients of list <nifl-womenlit@literacy.nifl.gov>
> Subject: [NIFL-WOMENLIT:2154] Re: continued "taboo" words/phrases
> 
> ISam,
> Thanks for sharing this. I learn so much from hearing about what teachers
> actually do in the classroom.  I was a teacher for years and am now doing
> curriculum development and teacher training stuff.
> 
> It's brave I think, to even use the words gay/lesbian/homosexual in the
> classroom- both for teachers and students. I wonder if somehow the concept
> of homosexuality was reintroduced later, now that  a student had brought it
> up, or if the notion of discomfort about topics or tabonness was brought up
> as a topic for discussion, if students wouldn't have had more of a chance to
> think through some of the issues that naturally emerged. But who knows? It's
> unfortunately, still, a risk.
> I've been talking to a lot of teachers about how and when gay/lesbian issues
> emerge in the classroom. And though this is all anecdotal at this point (i
> haven't done or read any systematic data collection about this), I've found
> that the issue of sexual identity does, often, make its way, somehow, into
> adult basic education classrooms. This makes sense to me given how basic our
> sense of self and our sense of family and community is to our every day
> existence.
> 
> Anyways, I'm really interested in what we as teachers and program
> coordinators do when the topic comes up. I know how many times I myself, in
> the classroom as teacher or student, have shut down the conversation because
> I've been uncomfortable with it- and for good reason, sometimes,no
> institutional support to be who we are if it deviates from the norm (i.e. in
> my case, a lesbian).
> 
> So, in slowing down to reflect upon our practices as teachers in the
> classroom, I've been really intrigued in what we do with those moments where
> the taboo, the transgressive, the opportunity to deconstruct what is normal
> into what it means to live with and honor difference and real diversity--
> when those moments, such gifts!, enter our classroom.
> 
> There's some work that's being done with how one introduces and or supports
> those critical/learning moments (Cynthia Nelson's writing in ESOL comes to
> mind as does Kevin Kumashiro's article in Radical Teacher  "Teaching and
> Learning Through Desire, Crisis and Difference" also comes to mind), but I
> have a feeling that teachers have been opening up those spaces in the
> classroom and that we just need to reflect on how we do it and what are the
> conditions necessary to do it.
> 
> Again, thanks for sharing this.
> 
> Deborah Schwartz
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "SAMM" <Samm@seattlegoodwill.org>
> To: "Multiple recipients of list" <nifl-womenlit@literacy.nifl.gov>
> Sent: Monday, May 06, 2002 6:32 PM
> Subject: [NIFL-WOMENLIT:2153] continued "taboo" words/phrases
> 
> 
>> Deborah,
>> 
>> Do you mean that by
>> exposing students and teachers to particularly taboo words, phrases and
>> concepts that it becomes
>> less taboo?
>> 
>> No. I meant the students. I think the more they are exposed to new ideas
> (or
>> different ones) their level comfort will rise and they will be will to
> work
>> with new taboo subjects.
>> 
>> I'm particularly interested in how the topic of sexual identity,
> "queerness"
>> or homosexuality as you call it
>> 
>> We were discussing homonyms and I said "homo" means the "same" and then a
>> student said "like homosexuals" and the foreign born student didn't know
>> what the word meant (homosexuals). So,anthor student said "you know when a
>> guy or female has the same sex partner"... and I said, "you guys could
> write
>> about or use homosexuality in your stories ... for free writing time." As
> I
>> reported.... on learning the definition of (homosexual) the students
> quickly
>> said "oh" and wanted to change the subject and or looked down at their
>> papers, etc.
>> 
>> I did continue the subject for a minute or two... then it was time for the
>> students to free write. I'm not sure about the student that brought-up the
>> subject -- my recollection is that she said it in an academic sense - to
>> give clarification to the meaning.
>> 
>> It may also be the person.....family types....I have had other students
> from
>> the same region, religion, etc. not react that way..
>> 
>> sam
>> 
>> 
>> 
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: Deborah Schwartz [mailto:deborah@alri.org]
>> Sent: Friday, April 19, 2002 3:42 PM
>> To: Multiple recipients of list
>> Subject: [NIFL-WOMENLIT:2137] Re: Reposting of NIFL-WOMENLIT:2134:
>> "taboo" words/phrases
>> 
>> 
>> Sam, Daphne,
>> I think exposure to the topic does play a big role, Sam.
>> 
>> It's difficult breaking the ice that first time. I remember years ago
> when
>> I was elected to co-teach a
>> Sex Ed class that focused on safe-sex. The unit was part of the grant
>> criteria at a youth program and
>> I was the literacy teacher. The nurse practiioner who I co-taught with
>> started the first class  with a
>> discussion about "tabooness" and then had everyone list out all the words
>> they could think of for
>> "penis" and "vagina"- the list covered the blackboards. Then she said:
> "Ok-
>> everything is out already.
>> Nothing we can say now will shock each other. It's time to be real and
> it's
>> time to learn and teach
>> about everything you know on the subject" It was a bit extreme, but did do
>> the job to clear the air for
>> the rest of the unit.
>> 
>> Sam, I was interested in your posting and did have a few clarifying
>> questions: Do you mean that by
>> exposing students and teachers to particularly taboo words, phrases and
>> concepts that it becomes
>> less taboo? I have definately found that to be true. In addition, when I
>> address a taboo topic or word
>> and there is some kind of reaction, including that dead silence that we've
>> all faced in the classroom
>> at one time or another, I find it useful to bring up the question of
>> "tabooness." In particular, I've found
>> it really useful to know who is uncomfortable with the term and why. Oftne
> I
>> find it's how it's
>> presented, how the teacher feels about the topic and if there's room in
> the
>> class for disagreement
>> and respect for differing/dissenting opinions..
>> 
>> I'm particularly interested in how the topic of sexual identity,
> "queerness"
>> or homosexuality as you
>> call it. I just returned from the TESOL convention in Salt Lake City,
> Utah,
>> and spent a lot of time
>> exploring with other ESL educators how one deals with gay issues when they
>> emerge in the
>> classroom as they so often do when you're teaching adults.
>> 
>> In particular, I'm interested in  hearing about how it came up in the
>> classroom you described-- you
>> said a student bought it up-- and who exactly was resistant to talking
> about
>> it (you assumed it was
>> the Muslim students) and how the teacher dealt with it and if s/he was
>> supported to continue the
>> conversation with her students.
>> 
>> In part, I think this topic tends to come up much more than we educators
>> like to admit. Afterall 10
>> percent of any given population is gay and it is still so taboo to be out
>> and open- in all cultures!In
>> closing, I think it's really significant that a student was the person to
>> bring up the topic. S/he may be
>> dealing with homophobia- either personally or by knowing someone who is
>> gay/lesbian.
>> 
>> 
>> Be well,
>> Deborah Schwartz
>> 
>> ---- Daphne Greenberg <ALCDGG@langate.gsu.edu> wrote:
>>> For some of you, Sam's posting came across as blank on your screen. Here
>> it is again:
>>> 
>>> Daphne,
>>> 
>>> Quick into:  My name is Sam (male) new to the list - I teach at the
>> Seattle
>>> Goodwill Learning Center  - we have a very diverse student population.
>>> 
>>> One of my students brought-up an issue about homosexuality and some of
> the
>>> more conservative Muslims (I assume more....) would not participate
> (even
>>> when asked directly) in the conversation.
>>> 
>>> I think exposer my play a big role in what is "taboo".
>>> 
>>> sam
>>> 
>>> 
>>> 
>>>>>> Samm@seattlegoodwill.org 04/18/02 04:11PM >>>
>>> 
>> 
> 
> 



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