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[Diversity 282] Re: abusers in our classrooms

Holly Dilatush

holly at dilatush.com
Sat Dec 20 23:21:45 EST 2008


First off, Daphne, ditto on the "thank you for broaching this topic."

I've not considered this in the same way you have outlined. Wow is right...
wow...

Once a sense of community has been established, I think it *is* something
that would be important to bring up more in classes, in other social
situations. But there is huge risk (my opinion) -- of triggering responses
(as others have indicated -- of triggering reliving of trauma for victims
-- but also I think it might escalate the fear factor and the mistrust
factor, and I'm never sure if that's a good thing. Our world increasingly
thrusts examples of actions I'd like to believe aren't true in our face (on
TV, radio, internet, all forms of media, and 24/7. Hope and trust in fellow
humans is sometimes challenging for me to find. And yet without hope,
without a sense of trust, I feel less of a person.

The three times I've had knowledge (rather than 'just' suspicion)
of incidents of violence/abuse involving learners in classes I was
facilitating/teaching, all left me feeling inadequate to deal with the
situation, dissatisfied with my actions, limited referrals.

I believe strongly in intentional dialogues and the power they have to spark
positive change or action in people. But I beleive equally that I am not
prepared to cope with all of the resulting trauma that may be triggered.
So, I question strongly whether it is 'correct' to intentionally raise the
red flags --
Despite this, I more of than not *will* bring up such topics/issues/ethical
dilemmas... most often in a "no answer is necessarily right or wrong" PBL
(problem-based learning) sort of activity -- frequently using case studies
and drama theory applications and guest speakers (from relevant
service/survivor groups).

A worthwhile topic and certainly one for reflection...
holly


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