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[Diversity 1150] My concluding thoughts about dress codes, boundaries, ethics, social class and culture
Michael Gyori
tesolmichael at yahoo.comSat Oct 24 01:54:32 EDT 2009
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Hello to all,
This conversation string has been quite a lengthy and lively one, dating back to when there was a discussion about burkas, if not even earlier.
There are only a few more thoughts I feel inclined to contribute to the discussion:
1. As long as instruction is truly student-centered with instructional goals and desired life outcomes aligned with and incorporated into the curriculum, we're off to a promising start. Of course, some learners may develop a sense of what they wish to happen in their lives as a result of the learning that occurs.
2. We all exude a "presence" to which others respond, I sense by and large unconsciously. For example, how we dress and why we do so can have a variety of underlying reasons: the desire to make a strong and deeply-felt statement or belief on one end of a contiuum, perhaps, and a simple sense of comfort in our attire on the other. Human beings will respond accordingly.
3. The fact that I dress informally (albeit modestly), is not intended (nor do I believe received) as attire my students should aspire to wear. I am I, and my students are "they."
4. If a learner wishes to engage in a life domain with the least of potential friction, I may advise him or her to dress in a manner completely unlike the one I am in. Should I choose to live in conditions in which my present attire is glaringly in opposition to the attire associated with a particular culture, I will change it lest it strongly conflicts with values that I embrace. I will not wear a Gestapo uniform if my surroundings demand it. My choice in that case will be to initiate resistance or leave such a setting. I don't know what I would do, because I have never consciously been in such circumstances
5. As for attire that signals to me that it carries signs of oppression (say of gender), the setting becomes much more challenging if one chooses to participate in it. I am not engaged in such settings, perhaps because I am not drawn to them, perhaps because they are they drawn to me, or more likely, a combination of the two. That said, there may be fundamental moral issues associated with "endorsing" practices simply by not questioning, even challenging them.
On the level of human coexistence, matters can become quite delicate on one level, yet remain quite simple on another (in my opinion).
If we could only dance in harmony...
Michael
Michael A. Gyori
Maui International Language School
www.mauilanguage.com
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