[PovertyRaceWomen 2101] Re: Hidden rules
Andrea Wilder
andreawilder at comcast.net
Fri Apr 25 15:38:23 EDT 2008
Daniel, David--
OK, I think it is really necessary to lay out the rules that literacy
students may be transitioning into. i can already see that this is a
big job, anyone interested in tackling it?
Andrea
On Apr 25, 2008, at 2:34 PM, David J. Rosen wrote:
> Daniel,
>
> You say that everyone knows the hidden rules. I may or I may not.
> It's hard to say because in this discussion I have seen so few
> examples of what have been referred to as the "hidden rules, "
> "unspoken rules," "prejudicial norms" or "pressures, constraints,
> barriers, biases, forces, power differentials, inequities in power or
> unfair conditions" .
>
> It might be helpful -- it certainly would to me -- if someone would
> post a list of "the [hidden] rules of persons living with the
> effects of poverty, the intersection of these effects with gender and
> race and the misunderstandings these can cause in the teaching/
> learning process" in the U.S.
>
> From this discussion so far, I have gleaned these as possible
> examples of those "hidden" or "unspoken" rules:
>
> • If you are poor don't talk about finances in general social circles.
> • For low-income and poor people, and perhaps some working class
> people, reading is a luxury; there are more important things to do
> than reading, like working to keep the lights on and food on the
> table. In other words, reading is a bourgeois activity.
> • When people become educated, they change, and will look down upon
> and eventually leave their families.
> • Working hard and studying hard may lead to success, but it depends
> greatly on one's economic, ethnic, and gender circumstances.
> • The hidden rules for any community or culture are culturally
> dependent; in order to function in another culture one needs to know
> what those rules are.... For example, when I visited a friend's
> family in a dangerous part of LA, she explained to me what the
> 'rules' were for a white girl at that time and in that place.
>
> What are some other unspoken rules for the poor? How do they
> intersect with gender and race? What misunderstandings do they cause
> in the teaching/learning process?
>
> Is all of this informed by Paulo Freire? Or is it informed by Ruby
> Payne? Or someone else? It might make a difference in what the
> unspoken rules are. It certainly makes a difference in what you think
> we should do about the unspoken rules.
>
> David J. Rosen
> djrosen at comcast.net
>
>
> On Apr 25, 2008, at 1:00 PM, Daniel Rizik-Baer wrote:
>
>> I cannot agree with you more. I definitely do think of English as
>> an amazingly beautiful language as well, with intracies and
>> innuendo that are unmatched throughout the world. I think the main
>> reason for this is due to the fact that English took cues from a
>> myriad of languages, incorporating so many things from so many
>> different places.
>>
>> I just want to make it understood that English is an oppressive
>> language on its own, but that it is the language of the dominant
>> culture. That I see a need to learn English in this country to
>> accomplish social change is speficially because, as Nadia said, in
>> this clountry
>>
>> "....without any hesitation that children can and
>>> have to learn English because this is also the
>>> language of action, advocacy and agency. "
>>
>> "Adult educators may not need to know about "hidden
>>> rules", which I state, most sincerely, I don't know
>>> about. "
>>
>> I think everyone knows the hidden rules, they are just not in plain
>> site. Knowing that they are there is a big step towards understanding.
>>
>>
>>
>>
>> On Fri, Apr 25, 2008 at 3:54 AM, Katherine <kgotthardt at comcast.net>
>> wrote:
>> Let's not forget that people who are multi-lingual are more globally
>> knowledgeable--they can code-switch at the international level!
>> Language
>> use helps us understand various perspectives because not all words
>> "translate." When we learn the idioms, metaphors, and philosophies
>> behind
>> various languages, we learn about culture and can communicate
>> better. (Wish
>> I had this ability to learn other languages because it is truly a
>> gift.)
>>
>> Katherine Mercurio Gotthardt
>> www.luxuriouschoices.net
>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: "Nadia and Kevin Colby" <thecolbys at prodigy.net>
>> To: "The Poverty, Race,Women and Literacy Discussion List"
>> <povertyracewomen at nifl.gov>
>> Sent: Thursday, April 24, 2008 9:43 PM
>> Subject: [PovertyRaceWomen 2095] Re: Mastery
>>
>>
>>> Daniel, I think that this is very true of children of
>>> immigrants. While I think that there are an awful lot
>>> of books about language and immigration (and some
>>> titles suggested by David Rosen regarding the "hidden
>>> rules" of poverty) I would like to add a couple of
>>> thoughts about language. Hopefully I am not off the
>>> mark.
>>>
>>> It is true that children of immigrants have a more
>>> acute pressure because they are trying to negotiate
>>> two or three cultures at the same time. They also
>>> have a wonderful opportunity. In many ways the
>>> United States has dealt much more with cultural
>>> clashes than other countries. English is the official
>>> language, and a dominant language in the world. It is
>>> also the language of great men and women, artists,
>>> poets and public intellectuals. It is actually a
>>> beautiful language. Thinking of different "codes" as
>>> the word has been mentioned in this list, and keeping
>>> in mind the post of Dr.Stitch "A nation still at
>>> Risk", (the government's failure to address the
>>> literacy needs of the country, disregarding in
>>> particular its inter generational effects) I would
>>> think without any hesitation that children can and
>>> have to learn English because this is also the
>>> language of action, advocacy and agency. This does
>>> not mean that other languages can not be spoken but I
>>> don't know how many dual language programs are
>>> successful in the country and what socioeconomic
>>> segment of the population they target. I know of a
>>> dual language program in New York City
>>> /French-English/ that targets a very affluent
>>> population. I worked in Bilingual Education in New
>>> York City in a public elementary school that served
>>> families who lived in public housing. The problem
>>> was not a dominant language vs the language of the
>>> families (by all accounts under served and under
>>> privileged) but the lack of the best resources
>>> (manipulatives, books and teachers) for a population
>>> that needed desperately the extra help. To my
>>> knowledge there were not ESL classes in the evening in
>>> that particular school. Though the kids and the
>>> parents would have benefited tremendously from the joy
>>> of learning along with their parents, of keeping an
>>> oral tradition alive, and of taking pride in knowing
>>> two languages, this never happened because the
>>> resources were meager.
>>>
>>> The lack of linguistic resources to me is the main
>>> issue. Framing the problem from the point of view of
>>> oppression (English as the language of racism, sexism,
>>> xenophobia) does not allow us to move forward in Adult
>>> Education. Spanish, French and Portuguese, to mention
>>> some languages I have been exposed to, are also
>>> languages whose different codes and discourses allow
>>> for marginalization.
>>>
>>> Adult educators may not need to know about "hidden
>>> rules", which I state, most sincerely, I don't know
>>> about. Moving the debate among instructors and
>>> students towards informative and critical thinking
>>> with publications such as the "Change Agent" or
>>> literature appropriate to the level of the students
>>> seems to potentially have us all affirm with integrity
>>> and honesty our commitment as educators and as
>>> students to social justice and human rights.
>>>
>>> There is a wonderful book about agency and
>>> illuminating moments of solidarity and lucidity of
>>> workers and the under served in this country. The
>>> book analyzes different approaches to social movements
>>> and then it provides the authors' own interpretation
>>> of the FDR years. "Regulating the Poor" by Francis
>>> Fox Piven and Richard Cloward is a classic work now
>>> regarding marginalized populations. It looks at
>>> poverty in the United States through the lens of the
>>> punitive nature of the country's social welfare
>>> system.
>>>
>>> Then going back to language and its relationship to
>>> oppression, I can' help thinking that Kafka and Walter
>>> Benjamin wrote in German. The devastating
>>> experience of these writers is a prism through which
>>> we can only celebrate that children learn the beauty
>>> of English. They can breathe through their linguistic
>>> competence. If we had the luxury that Continental
>>> Europe seems to have, of educating children who will
>>> speak more than one language, then maybe we would be
>>> in a different country.
>>>
>>> As Glenn Young pointed out regarding learning
>>> disabilities. When we go from disable to enable, from
>>> Negro to African-American, from "wet back" to Mexican,
>>> and so on, when we share with our students that our
>>> dignity is not negotiable, when we have informed
>>> discussions with them maybe the hidden rules become an
>>> open curriculum geared towards human rights. My own
>>> personal dream.
>>>
>>> Respectfully,
>>> Nadia
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> --- Daniel Rizik-Baer <drizikbaer at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>
>>>> and hopefully more of us will shuttle between the
>>>> two!
>>>>
>>>> Maybe a next step for this discussion would be to
>>>> let each other know the
>>>> ways in which we incorporate certain rules from
>>>> different aspects of our
>>>> lives into who we are as human beings, what those
>>>> rules may represrent, both
>>>> negative and positive, in the culture from which we
>>>> borrow, and how we have
>>>> come to utilize them in ways that do not cause us to
>>>> contradict the true
>>>> essence of ourselves.
>>>> I think this would help to furthur our understanding
>>>> of the people we come
>>>> into contact with, in the classroom or on the
>>>> street, who feel they
>>>> constantly have to compromise their integrity to
>>>> achieve success in this
>>>> country- the pressure to conform, the pressure to
>>>> succeed, the feeling of
>>>> not being completely a part of any one culture, and,
>>>> especially those people
>>>> that are born to first generation immigrants in this
>>>> country, the constant
>>>> switching back and forth between expectations from
>>>> their family and
>>>> expectations from society at large.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> On Thu, Apr 24, 2008 at 9:40 AM, Karen Wyman
>>>> <Karenw at nmcadv.org> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> Hi, all,
>>>>>
>>>>> In response to what Daniel wrote, I see your point
>>>> about adding to the
>>>>> tools we have able for use, and I do think that
>>>> the use of some tools
>>>>> requires us to go along with things we might have
>>>> grave disagreements with.
>>>>> To use the example of the English language, I must
>>>> go along with its rules
>>>>> in order to use, and some of those rules reflect
>>>> aspects of our society and
>>>>> culture that I abhor. Violence, sexism, racism,
>>>> and classism are embedded in
>>>>> the language we speak, and so we must use flawed
>>>> tools to build our
>>>>> understanding.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> Of course, we all have to live in this flawed,
>>>> imperfect world where we
>>>>> must take part in systems and organizations which
>>>> we don't wholeheartedly
>>>>> support, and I understand that in order for change
>>>> to occur, it takes all of
>>>>> us. Some of us will do our work from within
>>>> existing systems and structures,
>>>>> and others of us will work from the outside.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> Respectfully,
>>>>>
>>>>> Karen
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> Karen Wyman
>>>>>
>>>>> Community Outreach Trainer
>>>>>
>>>>> New Mexico Coalition Against Domestic Violence
>>>> (NMCADV)
>>>>>
>>>>> 201 Coal Avenue SW
>>>>>
>>>>> Albuquerque, NM 87102
>>>>>
>>>>> phone 505.246.9240
>>>>>
>>>>> fax 505.246.9434
>>>>>
>>>>> www.nmcadv.org
>>>>>
>>>>> karenw at nmcadv.org
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
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>>>> Daniel Rizik-Baer
>>>> Family Literacy Coordinator
>>>> Children Youth and Family Collaborative
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